So you want to improve your relationship with your advisor? Is the relationship tenuous or does it feel like there are trust issues- from your end and theirs? Read on! Keep in mind that while your trusted advisor is not perfect, neither are you. Some people never come to that realization! Did you know that something as basic as how you phrase a question can impact the advice you get?
How you react to the answers you get and how much information you share with your advisor will have a serious impact on the quality of advice you receive. If you want to improve your relationship with your advisor, evaluate what you say and how to say it- are you getting your point across? Are you communicating your needs well and being honest about your reasons and choices of goals? Start there.
Ultimately, the way to improve your relationship with your advisor and get higher quality service and advice is no different from how you would get better goods or services from any other vendors.You need to be a smart buyer and a good manager.
When dealing with attorneys, you don’t need a legal degree, but it helps to have a basic understanding of the legal process. In other words, you will make wiser decisions by better understanding which issues you can control and which you cannot (and which you should not waste your time or money trying to control).
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If you want to improve your relationship with your advisor, keep in mind that you are not a lawyer (if you’re not) and don’t try to be one. You hired them for a reason.
Lawyers and accountants tend to be very literal. If you go to a friend or a therapist and say, “I really want to fire my business partner,” she will likely take this to mean, “I really want to tell you how angry I am at my business partner so that I can get it off my chest, calm down and rationally decide what to do.”
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Most lawyers will assume you mean what you say (“I want to fire my partner”) and advise you of the best way to go down that road, without feeling the need to explore your feelings. They will not offer advice designed to help you figure out how to, perhaps, repair the relationship.
Go to your friend to vent. Go to your attorney to make a plan.
The very best advisors are a heady combination of book smarts and street smarts, not just one or the other. A good advisor will read situations and people alike, while having empathy for your frame of mind, and the others who will be impacted by the results. The best-trusted advisors are clever and creative problem solvers who operate with the highest level of integrity, honesty, and ethical conduct. Not all trusted advisors are excellent, in fact, and some should not even be trusted.
Can you tell the difference between the two types? If not, the best way to improve your relationship with your advisor, and improve your bottom line in one, fell swoop is to get the hell outta there.
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