Arthur Andersen. Enron. Bernie Madoff. Harvey Weinstein. Wells Fargo. Equifax. Again and again and again with these unscrupulous companies, their boards and their leaders, we hear the same questions repeated:
1) How did this happen?
2) How could nobody else have known about it?
3) Knowing what they knew, why was nothing done?
Often, it’s what I describe as a culture of arrogance that has existed for a very long time. I’m sure the unethical company culture didn’t start out that way. Yet, if even one act outside the lines of ethics and decency occurs it tends to lead to another and another.
What if you’re not complicit and accepting of such behavior? You’re out.
Before long, this behavior, in which people are knowingly in the wrong, becomes the norm. One person propagating an unethical company culture of arrogance by behaving badly spreads to the point that it feels like the whole company is behaving badly. And what if you don’t behave the same way? What if you’re not complicit and accepting of such behavior? You’re out.
A company doesn’t need to be operating on the global scale like an Arthur Andersen or as powerful as a Harvey Weinstein to breed a culture of arrogance. It simply needs to descend into a cycle of questionable behavior – usually based on greed, self-interest, and/or fear – that is tolerated to the point of where the heads of the company can say, “We can do no wrong. Our way is the right way.”
By the time it’s bad enough to warrant attention or action, it’s not a rehab project anymore. It’s a major operation in which you need to cut out the cancer and terminate everyone connected to the culture of arrogance. This is an important point: The “cogs” who are aware of the bad behavior and who, by their silence and complicity, are enablers of it, are as guilty as those who exhibit the bad behavior. Without them, the bad behavior can’t exist.
Sound extreme? Think again. When you have a tainted brand, you can’t reform that brand with only a few tweaks here and there. You need to do something major and show change to earn people’s respect and regain their trust.
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While you’re cutting out the cancer, you’re also going to need to heal yourself internally, and likewise heal any remaining client relationships after this major purge.
How can you showcase good behavior more? When people, whether internally or outside the firm, display good, ethical behavior, publicize and reward it so you can show that’s what you value. This is the way that others can begin to model that positive behavior.
In the past, I’ve also spoken about Disruptors – those special, hidden talents who tend to go against the grain, not to be difficult, but causing disrupting with a mission that they believe in. Could your relationship with this group also be cultivated? Are some of them willing to follow you toward this change in direction?
We always say that one of the key attributes of leaders Leading With Courage® is that he or she is a role model for the culture and values of the organization. If you want your organization to have a reputation for unethical company culture or be an arrogant, “We know better than you” organization, then that’s the kind of leader you should be. But, if you don’t want to be that way (and I hope you don’t), then you want to groom emerging leaders who know how to make a visible difference in the culture.
One standout way to do that comes from allowing new and emerging leaders to provide input that makes an impact at all levels, including the C-suite. That input doesn’t have to be implemented in every event, but leaders must demonstrate that it has been heard. This leads me to the next important act of changing an unethical company culture of arrogance, which falls squarely on the shoulders of the leader.
I’ve often said a leader can go a long way if they ask this very simple question: “What do you think?”
Besides that big question, I recently read an article in Harvard Business Review that offered two more great questions as well:
“How can I help?”
“What can I do better?”
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They may seem simple to ask, but for many leaders, having the vulnerability to ask these three questions is challenging. Still, with a dose of humility, leaders can gain great insight into how they and the culture surrounding them are perceived by others.
Don’t think for one minute that it’s enough to ask a few questions, though. As a Leader With Courage, you also have to be serious about listening and doing something with the advice that you’re given.
This may feel very different for a leader because they almost flip roles with the employee in a way. The leader becomes the employee looking for feedback and advice, but after some time passes, the leader has to return to the employee and say, “I’m really glad that you shared that with me a few weeks ago- and by the way, here’s what I did.”
As a Leader With Courage, you also have to be serious about listening and doing something with the advice that you’re given.
This is visible proof that the emerging leader had an impact at the highest level. That’s good from a retention and loyalty standpoint, as well as a way to break free of the stigma of being known for having an unethical company culture of arrogance. Think about the external impact this can have, too: You now have a concrete story that can be told and retold by those in your organization. When people hear, “(Your company) is such an arrogant culture where people leave,” colleagues can potentially counter that by saying, “Yes, that’s how it used to be. But the leaders are really changing things. In fact, I have conversations where I’m actually making a difference. It’s not just lip service.”
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One extra tip: Someone recently told me that “feedback” can have a negative connotation to it implying that what’s about to be said is going to actually be negative. The person suggested using the word “advice” instead to appear more optimistic and helpful.
At times, I’ll come into an organization that has expressed interest in having me do a Client Loyalty Assessment. That’s a great first step, but I’ll also want to know what the company is trying to achieve. If, at any point in the conversation, I hear that a major influencer isn’t on board, that’s a big red flag. If a decision-maker doesn’t believe in it, it’s not going to be a good experience for anyone. You can’t work around someone like that because if he or she resists hearing other people’s opinions then there’s no telling what else that person is doing. Is he or she:
During our Leading With Courage® workshops, one of our biggest exercises involves asking the question, “What’s not tolerated here?” We break all assumptions and get on the same page about what is accepted behavior and what is not. No more is “That’s the way it’s always been” the go-to answer. In a culture of arrogance, that’s the default response.
To help break this cycle, I am partial to The Five Behaviors of a Cohesive Team™. Based on the NYT bestselling book The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni, The Five Behaviors of a Cohesive Team™ is a model and development program that guides teams through a journey to improve in five areas that are key to productive team dynamics: Trust, Conflict, Commitment, Accountability and Results.
To move forward successfully, it’s crucial to collectively learn how to improve the quality of communication so leaders and employees alike can make lasting, positive changes upon a culture that is either knee-deep in arrogance or headed there.
Lee Eisenstaedt is the Co-Founder of the Leading With Courage℠ Academy and author of the Amazon best seller, "Being A Leader With Courage." Lee helps new and emerging leaders make a bigger impact, sooner by increasing the self-awareness of their strengths and blind spots through the Academy’s assessments, workshops, and executive coaching. He has also…
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